BEFORE YOU INTERACT

-I am untalkative most of the time in one on one conversations, I'm more comfy in groups.-I have selective mutism, there are times where I'm only able to speak through text.-I am very flirtatious, lots of 'i love you's and hearts but it's purely platonic. I'm in a very loving, long-term, and monogamous relationship.-I've been professionally diagnosed with depression, anxiety, PTSD, BPD, and OSDD.-I don't use tone indicators but I will gladly write them out if you need them! Just tell me /srs-It's extremely difficult to offend me.-My mental illnesses are a reason, not an excuse for my behavior. Please call me out if you feel I'm out of line so we can figure things out.-If I'm ever making you uncomfortable, make me aware. I will stop immediately and will remember you asking me to do so.-I HATE being labeled! Do not put labels on me, I will never be okay with it. I don't care if you're trying to defend me, DO NOT bring up my mental illnesses, race, gender, or sexuality out of conversation.-Communication of feelings is essential to have any sort of relationship with me, I cannot handle the friction (or what I might perceive as friction at the time).-There are times where my tone of voice or wording comes off as condescending, but I don't mean it that way.-I get social burnout and will occasionally take breaks, I try to make people aware.-I am straight up with people, I say what I mean and mean what I say.-My moral compass is very complicated and it's difficult to paint with a specific brush.

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